Being angry and resentful is a huge energy drain. If you want to feel ten pounds lighter, all you need to do is call somebody you hurt or wronged and apologize. Yes, do this even if it wasn’t your fault. Be bold and even call the people who hurt you and forgive them! It takes courage to forgive. Give up the fight now. It is not about who is right or wrong. It is about freeing yourself from the negative energy you are carrying around.
Make a list of people you are holding a grudge about. Get on the phone or start writing letters or emails. Talk in a neutral tone, but don’t forgive someone when you may still have feeling of rancor or resentment. In that case seek out a coach or therapist. Chances are, the people you’re resenting don’t even remember what the issue was in the first place. Start making amends today!
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